well, now that i have all my old postings out of the way, we can get down to business.

i find it incredible that an outlet for some can so quickly become an embarassing jerry springer episode. recently, my friend was verbally attacked on her blog for no reason. and i guess, well, i guess i just don't get it.

i don't understand why some people out there are obsessed with the past. can't move on. can't forgive. and even when you do forgive, they dismiss all good intentions.

so what to do? dwell on those stubborn people who need to be angry with you, because you're the scapegoat- encompassing everything that's wrong with them that they can't/won't change? or let it roll off your back, like hot shower water, and watch it go down the drain as if it was never there....

i try i try i try. i try to hard sometimes and not enough others. but at least i accept what is. and don't abandon what could be.